My essays

Breakup with the manosphere

We’ve seen what the bros have built. We can do much better.

Feb 4 •

We've waited long enough: It's time to put public pressure on Democrats to act

Six ways everyday citizens can force elected leaders to fight back against fascism

Jan 29 •

What to do NOW: 10 actionable ways to make a difference during the Trump years

The bad news is that the world is unpredictable and uncontrollable. The good news is that we are not helpless, and we shouldn’t feel hopeless. We can…

Jan 22 •

The secret to finding yourself is getting lost in service to others

Altruism, not capitalism, is the unlock to growth, fulfillment and finding your people

Jan 15 •

Trials, tribulations, tips and takeaways from 2024

Revisiting some lessons learned during a very intense year of earth school

Dec 20, 2024 •

In a world that wants women to want less, embracing desire is a radical act

Too many women believe they're too old, too busy, or too inexperienced to go after what they really want, but none of that is true

Dec 14, 2024

Announcing my new book: FIRED UP!

And it's now available for preorder!

Dec 9, 2024 •

Holding on to our humanity in an inhumane world

Social media has made it easier than ever for us to surrender our values and empathy to mob mentality

Dec 7, 2024 •

Small groups of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world

The most effective resistance to the Trump administration won’t be en masse, but underground—and it will start in small communities

Nov 27, 2024 •

No one let go of anyone's hand

Who are we if we sacrifice others’ safety and freedom to protect our power?

Nov 22, 2024 •

The sacred pause between the election and what comes next

There are plenty of fires to fight right now in America, but there’s a fire inside you, too. Appreciate this sacred pause—this space between fires—and…

Nov 15, 2024 •

A fresh morning in a broken world

Where do we go from here?

Nov 6, 2024 •

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